“Daddy, I want a puppy.”
I laughed, already considering my house a zoo.
“I’ll poop scoop.”
Yea, sure.
But, she did. My oldest daughter actually proved to me that she was more responsible than I imagined.
Yes, we added a new member to the Nordstrom zoo–a golden retriever puppy at Christmas. That makes 3 kids, 3 dogs, and 1 cat. Okay, so it’s not literally a zoo, but for a guy like me who rarely wears matching socks (actually skips socks altogether on most occaisons) the responsibility of this many little creatures can be a tad hairy (pardon the pun).
Here’s the point. Are we ever ready for responsibility?
I never dreamed that a seven year old would prove that she deserved a new dog–because she rarely paid attention to our existing pets. But, for three months, she shouldered the burden of picking up after two old wiener dogs. And, since we got the new pooch, she’s kept her word–even though the quantity of the task has grown exponentially.
I know a lot of people who have dreams, desires, and pursuits–both personal and professional. And, in a world where we are raised asking for permission–to go to the bathroom in high school, to earn credentials before someone gives us a job, to “pay your dues” before you can get promoted even if you have the talent–sometimes it feels daunting to ever get around to doing anything, because we’re always waiting for someone to give us a green lead.
Are you ready to have kids? Are you ready to be a manager? Are you ready to start your own company?
The first time anyone did anything, it was their first time. Which, undeniably, means they weren’t fully prepared, credentialed, or granted persmission.
So take a chance when an employee has the passion to pursue more responsibility. Scratch that itch to become your own boss. Demand a promotion even if you’ve never held a similar position.
You may lose. But, you may stumble into something absolutely fantastic. In my case, it’s a poop-free back yard.